Ermm… this is a community message, dont flame me k. Some customers who gradually who later on became buddies, kept bugging me with the same thing, is too much harmful? Heck even some of my dear students also asked the same question.

So, when some kind soul forwarded this article to me, might as well share it.  Please take note, the article is not written by me, so please dont plaster me with acquisition of plagiarism .

Gentlemen: Is Your Sex Life Killing You? ? ?

Sex feels good, and the proper amount of sex can help maintain physical and emotional health. But balance is the key. Both having too little or too much sex can lead to unhealthy conditions. Let us look at the effects of too much sex, too little sex, and what the proper amounts should be based on your age and condition.

How Much Sex Is Too Much..?

The theories of Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) warn that a man who engages in too much sex can become what is known as “kidney jing deficient.” Jing is a term that refers to the body’s essential fluids, distilled by the kidneys from what we eat and drink. The kidneys are thought of as the body’s “batteries” and the place where jing is stored. Chinese health theory suggests we are actually equipped with enough jing (life essence) to live 120 years. The problem is we exhaust this essence through poor diet, lack of rest, lack of exercise, the effects of stress, disease and… an unhealthy amount of sex.

Signs and symptoms of kidney jing deficiency include a weakening of the bones, hair loss, a graying of facial colour, loosening or loss of teeth, soreness in the lower back, weakness of the legs (particularly behind the knees), poor memory, loss of libido, impotence and a general lack of sexual desire. If you are suffering from any of these signs and symptoms, perhaps you should consider if too much sex is killing you… or at least weakening you.

With too frequent ejaculation, jing (semen, the essence of pure fluids and life energy) is depleted from the body. Moreover, as a man passes middle age, the excessive loss of jing can cause the disastrous effects described above. Like contact sports, sex is a young man’s game. Middle aged and older men need to retain their jing (semen essence) and ejaculate less frequently. (There is an entire art in Yogic and Taoist traditions of men learning to come to orgasm while not releasing a single drop of semen. (More on this in another article)

Two-thousand years ago Su Nu Jing, the classic text on TCM, was published. It advised how much sex/ejaculations are safe for a man to have. For example, a healthy 20-year-old can ejaculate twice per day with no adverse effects. Also, to maintain proper health, the 20-year-old should have a minimum of one ejaculation every four days.

The following chart suggests the sex guidelines from that classic text:

Of course, these are rough guidelines set forth within the theories of TCM. This gives you an idea of the frequency a man should have sex in order to maintain good health and balanced emotions.

The average 20-year-old male who is engaging in masturbation three times a day is probably overdoing it. This could possibly affect his grades (poor memory) or affect his tennis match (with weak knees and sore low back).

If you are a 40-year-old executive thinking of having that affair with the 24-year old-intern, you might want to consider if you are in good enough health to survive an extramarital affair. You could wind up suffering from hair loss, aging of the face, low back soreness, weak legs, poor memory, loss of libido, impotence and lack of sexual desire that could cost you your career and your health… not to mention your marriage (if applicable).

How Much Sex Is Too Little..?
Keep in mind that no sex at all is unhealthy. Psychologically, it can cause resentment, depression and anxiety. Sex is important for relationships, not just emotionally, but for the organ systems as well. Ladies, when men tell you they feel like they are dying from lack of sex, it’s partially true. In reality, the choked up emotions and lack of connection can cause him to suffer what is known in TCM as liver qi stagnation.

According to TCM theory, the liver functions to move the qi (life energy) freely in the body. So, liver qi stagnation is a pathogenic flow of qi manifesting in some of the following signs and symptoms: feeling of distension in the chest and hypochondrium, sighing, hiccup, melancholy, depression, moodiness, unhappiness and feeling of a lump in the throat. Often the etiology of this syndrome includes emotional problems, a state of anger, frustration and/or resentment.

If this condition persists it can grow into what is called liver fire. The signs and symptoms associated with liver fire include irritability, anger, shouting, ringing in the ears, temporal headache, bitter taste in the mouth, dream disturbed sleep, a red face and red eyes. This is the result of long-standing emotional states of anger, resentment or frustration. This can cause problems like high blood pressure, tinnitus, insomnia, migraine headache and the like.

Good sexual relations are a part of good health. Overdoing it can be detrimental to health, and so can too little of it.
My advice: Be happy and be wise in the ways of lovemaking.

Lovely article, especially the parts that i put in bold. Brilliant excuse for all occasions i would say. They should add, all else fails, use the hand…Lastly, if you are a kind soul, support my baby fund at mickeysmart ya. LOL…

Big Papa

It is currently the Chinese 7th Lunar month, where the dead is given 1 whole month to party here on earth. Technically, they are only given a day’s off. According to the Taoist believes, a day on the nether world is equivalent to 1 month on earth. Yup, it’s party time for the dead. To ensure order on earth, two parole officers are deployed by the king of  Hades. Now, I am not sure how two officers can managed to hold rein to millions of party goers.

King of Hades.Impressive effigy for devotees to pay respect.

One of the parole officer known as Tua Ya Pek.

My mother will always use this opportunity to discourage me from staying out late. ” lang or kui ( human or ghost), you cannot tell the difference. Look at the legs, their legs dont touch the ground! Later they follow you and sleep with you, then you know!”

Had to admit, mum’s warning has a serious effect on me till now. The thought of just two parole officers for millions of party goers certainly does not sounds assuring to me.  It was when I came back to Penang after 7 years of staying alone in KL, I realized the dead are not so scary after all.  No doubt, the dead are not visually appealing. Give them a break, they dont have SK2 or Loreal in the nether world.  I am also pretty sure, they dont have access to saloon and a hair dryer either, which explains the long wet hair.  To be fair, some of the living human are not visually appealing either.

The dead on the left lacks hair care and good complexion. With a bit of mascara, SK2, hair do, viola, you get the right picture!

” Remember, the dead has mystical power that can wreck your life! They may possess you  if you are spiritually weak!” so says my mum every single year during this period of time. yes, the dead has magical power that can harm  a living being.

The dead has magical powers to summon a third eye on the forehead and follows you to work, sleep and shit.

Those Thai and Japanese horror films always involved a pretty lady  possessed by  a vengeful spirit on then went on blood thirsty rampage. Then again their dead count is so insignificant compared to the undead.

So statistically, the  living breathing so call human beings has a much higher hit count than the undead.

So who says the living wont kill?

The living can also give much hell to fellow human beings compared to the undead. There are also The livings who can equally stalk you to work, eat and shit. Worst case, they can even back stab on you! Those cute little angels are actually the real devil in disguise. Trust me, I was just recently back stabbed by an angelic -looking student of mine.

And how about crazy bosses? Crazy bosses that loves to micro-managed every detail of your life in the workplace as well out of the work place? Trust me, I rather face an undead anytime over a crazy boss. The most the undead would do is to scare me till I piss on my pants.  Crazy boss drives me insane.

Even with make up and proper lighting, crazy boss sure drives me nuttier than a the undead

My current bosses avoid me like a plague after a student complain. To them, I am like the undead, best avoided at all times. So I guess the feelings are mutual then. Strangely, I never bode well with lady bosses above 40 years old  married or unmarried ones. They say it is because of lack of sex. I dont even want to know. Must be one of those menopause thingy.I am not bringing in crazy wives to the discussion here, less I face repercussion from the wive. You get the drift rite…

There are also irritating ones in our communities. When they speak, its like shit spewing out from their mouths. They get on your nerves with their logical thinking that numbs your brain – the same effect of watching the ring consecutively back to back. Yup with a face that fathoms with so much hypocrisy, I do wonder if he is for real. As always, there is always one for each community be it in the workplace or in the nation.

This guy has much “follower” than the undead, scarier than the undead.

So what’s your verdict? The undead dont worries me anymore. It is the living breathing backstabbers, crazy female bosses, racist that scares the living out of me.  The world would be a better place without them. Those are the actual undead with make-up…

Big Papa